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Hello everyone, our agony aunt Aunti Ife is here again. All this while, she's been helping brides-to be but today, we have an already married lady Ifeoma who's having trouble managing her finances. Here's what she wrote: "#DearAuntiIfe, I have been married for 4 months and my friend who has been married for about 6years advises me to steal from my husband. Well, that's what I think she means. She said I was naïve because my husband gives me money for the things I need and I contribute to things around the house when I can afford to. She told me to always ask for more than I need and then save the rest. She also said I should never contribute to household expenses, "as a man who cannot take care of his wife is worse than an infidel". This is not what I believe as marriage is a partnership. But another friend has taken this advice and I fear for her. I know my husband would never trust me again if he found out I lied over money. Is this what women do?" ...Anti Ife replied with: "To some extent, I agree with your friend. Men are unpredictable. He's doing all these things now because you are newlyweds. Sooner or later, he will change from his known behaviour. He's a man and that's just how they are wired. Trust me, I know. I'm not saying you should dupe your husband, but what I'm saying is, try and keep your money to yourself. My motto when it comes to marriages and finances is “my money is my money, his money is ours”. So my dear, if you need anything for the house, ask him. After all, he's the head of the house, he should be able to provide for everything. The little you make from your work/business keep it to yourself, and save for a rainy day. And of course, if you need anything for yourself, don't hesitate to ask him too, that's why he married you. You're all his. And yes, to answer your question, that's what smart women do." There you have it people, do you think Aunti Ife and Ifeoma's friend are both right? Is that the right thing for Ifeoma to do? We appreciate your comments, tell us what you think. #naijaweddings #marriageadvice #couple #finance #agonyaunt
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